that's what i said.it's no longer a neutral as it's not referenced to 0v any more.
Well, actually no, you didn't, you said this (with my emphasis):
if you disconnect the neutral from the supply side, there is no current flow and hence no volt drop, sot the N is at a 230V potential.
And that's not me twisting things, and again, it's not me trying to start a fight. It's me trying, and failing, to get across what I think is a very important fundamental point.
If you had a 9V battery, with a bulb connected across it, and you disconnected, at the battery, the wire attached to the -ve terminal, it would no longer be a -ve wire. Were you to connect a voltmeter to it to measure what voltage it was at wrt battery - you would find that it was at +9V, and you would not be able to measure -9V between it and the battery +. It wouldn't be a -ve wire.
Of course this distinction doesn't matter most of the time when you're talking about the wires from the bulb holder, ditto the N conductor as per above, which is what I'd already said in #15, so in no way am I arguing with
In fact I've just said "Neutral" to another sparky even though it isn't connected yet. Astoundingly they understood me. It felt great!
It's just that when someone is trying to get to grips with what is meant by "+9V", or "230V AC", about what potential differences exist between what points in a circuit, and when, and why, and why current flows, or does not flow, I think it is important to focus very precisely on what something actually is.
I'm sorry that I'm failing so badly to explain that people think I'm really trying to make trouble.